Autism counseling
Counseling, support and resources for people on the autism spectrum and their families — so everyday life becomes easier and the quality of life improves for everyone involved.
Autism counseling is about your real, day-to-day life: understanding what your child needs, reading behavior as communication, and sorting out together which next steps make sense right now — at home, at daycare (Kita), or at school.
Many families come with very practical questions: How do we make mornings less stressful? How do we handle sensory overload? How do we manage the transition into daycare or school? This is exactly where we begin — realistically, at your pace, and close to what matters to you right now.
Have you only just received the diagnosis? On After the diagnosis you’ll find first steps and a calm sense of orientation.
What my work includes
Parent and family counseling
By working closely with families of autistic people, I help parents better understand their children’s specific needs and develop effective strategies for supporting them.
Coordination of regional services
Supporting parents in coordinating services and resources, including schools, therapists, physicians and community-based support.
Creating support plans
Developing individual support plans tailored to each person’s needs. These plans can include suggestions for therapy and support, social inclusion and other interventions.
Awareness and education
I offer training and workshops for schools, communities and professionals, to build understanding of autism and share proven, respectful practices.
Who I work with
My support is aimed at three levels — depending on who is looking for help right now.
Families
Parents and relatives of children and adolescents on the autism spectrum — for orientation after the diagnosis, relief in everyday life, and workable strategies at home.
Daycares (Kita) & schools
Educational teams supporting a child on the spectrum — for case-by-case guidance, an understanding of sensory needs, and a good framework in everyday life.
Professionals & institutions
Professionals and institutions who want to deepen their knowledge — through awareness, professional exchange, and training and workshops.
Setting & how I work
Appointments take place by arrangement, in person or online. We work at your pace: I listen, sort out the next steps together with you, and develop strategies that fit your everyday life — realistic and close to what matters most to you and your child right now.
My approach is respectful, child-centered and neurodiversity-affirming: for me, autism is not a “disorder” to be fixed, but a different way of perceiving the world. It is not about changing a child to fit in, but about finding, together, a setting in which they can feel safe and thrive.
On the question of funding: in certain cases, support may be available through integration assistance (Eingliederungshilfe) under § 35a SGB VIII (integration assistance for children and adolescents under German social law) via the responsible Jugendamt (youth welfare office). Whether this applies to your situation is decided by the Jugendamt on a case-by-case basis. If you have questions about this, feel free to ask me — I’ll be glad to pass on the information you need.
In the United Kingdom there is no equivalent of that route, and no office that funds counselling of this kind — with me it is paid privately there. What the British system does offer for your child, free of charge, is the statutory advice services: IPSEA and your local SENDIASS in England, Enquire in Scotland, SNAP Cymru in Wales, SENAC in Northern Ireland, and Contact across the whole UK. What to apply for in the UK →
Who the counseling is right for — and who it may not be
Honestly: when this support is the right fit — and when a different path suits you better.
A good fit if …
- you are supporting a child or adolescent on the autism spectrum (or there is a suspicion)
- you are looking for orientation and a next step after the diagnosis
- transitions are coming up — such as into daycare (Kita) or school
- you want to ease everyday life and build workable structures and strategies
- you are a daycare (Kita), school or institution seeking professional guidance
Probably not, if …
- there is an acute crisis or emergency — in that case, medical or therapeutic help is the right path
- you are expecting a medical diagnosis or a “cure” for autism
- you are looking for ABA therapy — my approach is child-centered and neurodiversity-affirming
How does the counseling work?
Step by step — at your pace.
Getting to know each other
In a free, no-obligation initial consultation, we get to know each other and clarify your situation and wishes.
Background
Together we look at your child’s strengths, challenges, sensory needs and everyday life.
Goals
We decide together what to work on — realistic and close to everyday life.
Support
Regular appointments and — with your consent — an exchange with the daycare (Kita) or school if needed.
Adjusting
We regularly look at what’s working and adjust the strategies together.
Frequently asked questions
Does my child already need a diagnosis?
No. You are welcome to reach out even if you only have a suspicion or open questions. I do not make diagnoses — together we look at what would help you and your child right now.
Does the counseling take place in person or online?
Both are possible. Appointments take place by arrangement, in person or online — whatever works best for you and your family.
Do you also work with daycares (Kita), schools and institutions?
Yes. Alongside family counseling, I support educational teams in individual cases and offer awareness sessions, professional exchange, as well as training and workshops.
Is there a way to have the costs covered?
In certain cases, support may be available through integration assistance (Eingliederungshilfe) under § 35a SGB VIII via the responsible Jugendamt (youth welfare office). Whether this applies to your situation is decided by the Jugendamt on a case-by-case basis. Feel free to ask me about it.
Related topics
Topics that are often on the minds of the families I work with.
After the diagnosis
First orientation after the diagnosis: what helps now and which steps may make sense next.
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A gentle, complementary method that can support relaxation and self-regulation.
Myths & Facts
Common misconceptions about autism — and what the evidence really shows.
Note on the legal information
This information has been compiled to the best of my knowledge, but it is not legal advice — laws, amounts and procedures change, and every case is different. What is binding is the applicable law and the decision of the responsible authority; I cannot accept liability. For important decisions, the free independent participation counseling (EUTB) or a social welfare association can help.
Status: August 2026. Law, amounts and procedures change — in the UK, benefit rates are normally uprated every April. What applies at the time of your application is what counts; please check it with the office responsible.
Which approaches exist, and what “supported by evidence” means, is on After the diagnosis.
Let’s start a conversation
A first conversation is free and without obligation. Write to me in whichever language feels most comfortable to you — I’ll be glad to support you and your family.